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Dilemma 4

I’m 19 years old and I’ve never had a girlfriend. I honestly haven’t cared to have one until recently’ About 6 months ago, I met an amazing girl, but I saw her as only a friend. To this day we hang out weekly, and we’re best friends. Recently, however, we’ve both started developing feelings for each other. I’ve never felt this for a girl before, but I’ll do anything for her and she’s told me that she wants me to kiss her and be with her. BUT, she has a boyfriend who is away at the moment. And so while he’s been gone, we’ve been getting closer and closer. I’ve been purposely pushing her away because I feel like by getting intimate with her I’ll be encouraging her to cheat and I’ve always been very harsh on cheats. But at the same time, I really love her. I want to be with her so much. I also feel offended because she’s admitted to wanting to be with me, but she hasn’t left her boyfriend. I don’t know why she doesn’t just leave him if she really wants to be with me. I have no idea what I should do. P.A.K

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